Sunday, December 12, 2021

Saturday Photo

Christmas = Generosity + Giving + lots of laughter and cheers

Last December 11, 2021, together with seven of my peers in the 2021-2022 Humphrey Fellows at Penn State University, I joined community volunteers in one of the most cherished American holiday traditions in the spirit of generosity and sharing - the annual Marine Corps Toys for Tots, organized by the United States Marine Corps Reserve.  We celebrated the end of a remarkable Fall semester by trying to show our own generosity and eagerness to share our time with our Penn State and State College community in service to others.  Accompanied by our community hosts, Star Campbell, Jane Reese, and Jack and Joyce Igoe, at the Penn Stater Hotel and Conference Center, we volunteered to sort and pack toys in bags to be distributed to economically disadvantaged children in Centre County, PA.  Our hosts assisted us to personally sign Christmas cards to accompany the bags of toys.

As we look forward to spending the holidays in the United States, which is a first for some of us, we took time to volunteer in the Christmas spirit for our host community.  Along with community members, we helped organize and pack hundreds of bags of new toys that were donated from State College and surrounding communities.  It was marvelous to see the amazing volume of toys and the spirit of gift-giving and sharing in the community!  We found out that, last year, there were 18,561 toys distributed to 8,319 children.  We certainly hope that more children will benefit from this worthy community endeavor this year.

I was impressed by the spirit of unity and cooperation in the community that made Toys for Tots possible. It was remarkable!  That day, I experienced another of the many sides of the United States – that side that happily puts giving and service to others first and foremost, and it was infectious. As we were sorting toys, my community host, Jane Reese, started to hum a Christmas carol, and all hummed along.  Most of us were giggling and skipping around to the rhythm of the song while observing social distancing. Before we knew it, we had sorted thousands of toys.  Our hearts were full but we felt as light as feather – I loved it!


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Note:  The photo used in this entry is mine.  Parts of this entry have been published in the Hubert H. Humphrey Fellowship Program Newsletter, published by the Institute of International Education (IIE). 


Tuesday, November 30, 2021

QOTD

 QOTD #28:  Life's surprises are the best kind.

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by PAM

"Everyday is a new day.  It is better to be lucky.  But I would rather be exact.  Then when luck comes you are ready."

 - Ernest Hemingway, The Old Man and the Sea

To spend the week-long Thanksgiving break at my sister's and brother-in-law's place in Boise, ID was a given.  They are my only family in this country, and we haven't seen each other since my last visit back in 2019.  Although that was only two years ago, so many things happened in between, most of which are pandemic-related, two of which involved death and a near-death experiences, were traumatic for all of us and they  

At Boise at my sister's, I had no idea what
awesomeness was waiting for us at
Sun Valley & Ketchum.
changed our lives forever. So, naturally, it is a good idea to catch-up.  The Thanksgiving break gave us that opportunity.

Surprisingly, the visit was not as emotional as I anticipated, especially that our father's first death anniversary was only about two weeks away during the time of my visit.  And, I haven't fully recovered from the trauma of being a COVID-19 survivor.  I guess the chance to see each other face-to-face after all the things that we endured over the last two years outweighed the need to assess whether we already have or yet to heal.  It seemed that the happiness to see each other, especially my sister and I, did most of the healing, and in an instant, too.  The rest of the trauma became just negligible.  Indeed, this is a pleasant surprise!

In their attempt to celebrate Thanksgiving together and to take a little vacation, my sister and brother-in-law planned a trip to the lovely, lovely city called Sun Valley, ID.  It is a place famous for its association with the legendary American novelist and Nobel Laureate, Ernest Hemingway.  It is well-known that he first stayed in the famous Sun Valley Lodge in 1939 while writing his novel, For Whom the Bell Tolls.  I do like Hemingway.  He was one of the authors whose works we studied back in the early 1980s in my Junior High School years in the Philippines.  We specifically studied his Pulitzer-winning work, The Old Man and the Sea.  During that time, 

The Hemingway Memorial in Sun
Valley, just a preview of the
awesomeness that Sun Valley
& Ketchum are!
his grand daughters, (the late) Margaux Hemingway and Mariel Hemingway, were quite well-known young actresses, which added to the interest in studying his works.  I have to say, however, that I do not recall his association with Sun Valley, ID.  

Aside from Sun Valley, we also visited Ketchum, ID, which was the last home of Ernest Hemingway, and where his remains are buried.  In fact, we stayed in Hotel Ketchum - a beautiful tourist accommodation place right in the middle of the city but with the lovely snowcapped mountains around it seeming to envelope it.  We traveled back and forth between Ketchum and Sun Valley, mostly just walking.  I do think that the two cities are almost one and the same - in beauty and overall character.  It was so easy to walk between their centers, and just admire the breathtaking sceneries in between.  I loved it that the two cities are so understated, and almost 'hidden' from tourists. Except for the few mansions at the hills, overlooking the Sun Valley golf course below, the environment seemed unadulterated and carefully preserved in both cities.  They are lively cities, too, with enough good places to eat.  Shopping was also interesting with all the unique finds in those boutiques and regular stores that seemed to jump out of a Hallmark TV movie.  People are accommodating and friendly, but not overly so.  Both cities are quiet places without looking deserted.  At some point, my sister and I sat on a bench to admire the hills and the creek below, which sparkled from the rays of the sun... we did not realize that we were sitting there for more than an hour already despite the cold.  It is too beautiful and serene!  It is so refreshing compared with the big, noisy and tiresome cities of the United States!

While I did not expect Sun Valley and Ketchum to be so gloriously beautiful, I get it why the award-

The Hotel Ketchum - a great and practical
alternative to the legendary Sun Valley Lodge. 
winning novelist Hemingway whose personality was the very meaning of 'larger than life' especially in his younger days would choose to settle there after galivanting in the glittery cities of France, Spain and Cuba, and the big cities of the United States.  The drive from Boise to Ketchum and Sun Valley alone was incredible, filled with dramatic sceneries overwhelming the senses one after another without even trying. The long range of snow-capped mountains and the expanse of valleys below, bathed in the rays of the veiled sun in the approaching winter, were totally a thing to behold.  Getting 'up close and personal', and actually climbing a part of those mountains, is a totally unforgettable experience!  What a pleasant surprise, indeed, I thank my lucky stars!

To be continued in more details in the next post....

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Photo credit:  All the photos used in this post are mine.

   

Saturday, June 26, 2021

Writing, er, blogging...

 ...reloaded!

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by PAM

Ah... I can't believe it's almost been a year since I last visited this private space of mine in the virtual world!  This 'side of the world used to be a blogging space... but now, it is predominantly a vlogging space.  Over the last two years, vlogging has become mainstream.  And why not?  It is quick to digest, more visual, and the audience need not flex their imagination too much.  It's all been worked out for them readily.  The vlogs are designed so that contents draw certain reactions from the audience.  Therefore, the reactions are expected... well, most of them, anyway.  As such, vlogging does conform better with what the world has become, following the advent of Industry 4.0.  The art of putting spotlight on one's self, one's interest and one's opinions and beliefs has become a second nature to everyone regardless of whether one's beliefs an opinions are right or wrong.  This is supported by the ever-evolving social media and the multitude of multi-media apps that are mostly based on data mining and data analytics - powerful tools that found their use in producing a parallel virtual universe for each individual.    

Basically, anybody with a smart phone and an opinion can vlog... as a vlogger need not learn the art and techniques of writing - a challenge that prevented many before from expressing opinions using amateur

Trying to survive the virtual world through
through Zoom Meet.

 journalism approach and in a non-ranting manner, too.  What the vlogger needs to learn well though is the art of using voice tones, intonations and speech pacing, visuals and audio, body language and the general blend of body language and speech to get the message across. In many cases, vloggers have these skills as natural "gifts", and all they need to do is bring them into the virtual world.  I am not sure how much of the vlog content is created by the vlogger, and how much is written by a content designer.  I guess it varies from one vlogger to another.  In any case, vlogging involves relevant virtual technologies for a very good production; and production has become a serious 'business' as it can fetch the vlogger a handsome sum, too.  Thankfully, many vlogs are very useful, and informative.  These are the kinds where the objective of the vlogger is not just to express an opinion to influence others, but to offer an expert's perspective on a topic, or to share honed talents and special interests with those who wish to improve their own talents and/or educate themselves in the same field of special interests.  To me, some of the most enjoyable vlogs are those in the entertainment and education fields. 

Have I embraced vlogging ?  Well, I do have a YouTube (YT) channel since 2011.  I have several videos posted, not in a vlog format... yet.  Who knows, when I finally take a Sabbatical Leave next Academic Year, I would have time to curate my YT channel, and merge this blog with it to create a blog-vlog composite.  I might throw in my Instagram in the mix, too.  That might just make me a legit netizen then. 

Oh, yes, the world has evolved so much in just one year... and it keeps evolving still.  Some aspects of the evolution followed the pre-pandemic trajectory, but we also saw how many aspects shot up to become the 'new normal'... and there is no turning back. We really can't stay contented where we are... or, maybe we can, too.  We just cannot expect to understand the world, and be understood by the world, if we chose to stay still.

At the moment, I am staying but not... still.

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Saturday, August 22, 2020

Saturday photo

 

Friendship assures, laughter heals... love begets love.  God is good!

It's been a while since I last saw these kids, given the pandemic.  And, although I often talk to them via online communication platforms - almost everyday with others, it's been a while since I last spoke with them altogether.  So, it was a real treat to meet all of them, albeit only virtually via Zoom meet.  

My kids all looked good.  They sounded happy despite the pandemic, and seemed very excited to talk to one another altogether, too.  Given the week-long high stress level at my (virtual) workplace, and the nerve-racking first two weeks of classes just waiting for emotional explosions here and there due to the challenging situation of holding classes online, given the pandemic and the very limited connectivity of most students, I was so ready for the weekend!  It finally came... and it started with a "Fridate" with these kids.  

It was a very long catching up session. There were a lot of happy pieces of news that everyone shared, and a little not-so-happy news, too.  But there was enough stories to laugh about with all our hearts, and there was enough good things to hinge our high hopes on for better things in the coming days. There was a lot of reminiscing, too.  I didn't realize we have made so much memories together over the short period of time that we became a family.  That sort of warmed our hearts... and it felt very nice.  I was happiest for the longest time, thanks to these kids!  And, thanks be to God for these kids!    

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Saturday, July 18, 2020

Saturday photo


"...when workers are pushed to their limits through no fault of their own."

In times of crises, no matter how hard we try, there will always be that possibility of unintentionally neglecting one group of stakeholders in our organization.  In this time of pandemic, in the education sector, that group of stakeholders is the teaching staff.  The natural focus of attention are the students, as they and their needs are perceived to be the most 'vulnerable' to neglect and to poor quality of service.  The members of support staff, especially those whose employment are not protected by permanence, are usually the next focus as they are perceived to provide the assistance that are crucial in maintaining the continuous provision of services to satisfy the needs of everyone in the Institution.  

The teaching staff are perceived to be the provider of the very reason why a learning institution exists - the generation and transmission of knowledge... education.  The quality of the service depends on how committed they are, and how brilliant they are in their fields to sufficiently provide the education that the students enrolled for in the learning institution, in the first place.  Therefore, much is expected of the faculty members; they have to show expertise, efficiency and effectiveness in teaching at all times - regardless of circumstances, (COVID-19) pandemic notwithstanding.  Even when the world was turned to a 'deer in headlights', everyone still expects the faculty members to be in control, efficient and unperturbed by the pandemic, even when they themselves are vulnerable to the deadly effects of the pandemic.  Unfair?  Aren't educators so used to being subject to injustice in this world?  Aren't we the most maligned people - accused of incompetence when a student cannot or refuses to learn because of factors that are not even within the educator's sphere of influence, and therefore, the reason of that student's failure?  We are the most convenient excuse for failed parenthood and failed national and societal leadership; and we are rarely remembered in the success stories of students, and in their moments of triumph.  Sad?  Of course, it is!  But we are used to it.

So, yesterday, I received daggers of complaints from a parent on two of our faculty members - not so much on the quality of their teaching but on the technicalities of delivering instruction online.  Apparently, we are supposed to turn to experts on full online teaching and learning overnight, and that we are solely responsible if students are unable to adjust and fail to do so satisfactorily.  My knee-jerk reaction was to send an email to my colleagues, and let them know about it... with some gentle jabs.  But I turned the page of my daily spiritual readings yesterday, and I found a lovely message that was so apt to the situation.  I thought I'd share the message in today's featured photo because I felt like I was 'scolded' by the Lord yesterday... and it was quite sobering.

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Wednesday, July 15, 2020

Wednesday happy pill...

...unexpected but understandable.
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by PAM

Myung-soo (center): 
"What did you just say?
What did you guys do in my workroom?
What happened after the hugging?"

I cannot look at these photos, blurred as they are, without laughing uncontrollably.  It works everytime! 😂 

This 'happy pill' is from "The Heirs" (a.k.a. "The Inheritors")... and, yeah, it's a Korean TV Drama, and, uhm... I soooo love it! It is my all-time fave, and I can spend a whole day just watching and re-watching it. I laugh and cry... get mad, get agitated... and then laugh and cry again, and then fall in love over and over again just watching the 20 episodes. I cannot get enough of it. This much I admit, uhm... without shame! 😅

This 2013 KDrama starred that beautiful man, Lee Min-ho, who was at his most beautiful phase in life playing the beautiful young man in the series, Kim Tan, and the A+ Korean actress, Park Shin-hye, who played Cha Eun-sang. Together, they made such a cute young couple in a Cinderella story that makes one fall in love. Never mind that Tan can be that typical spoiled conglomerate son sometimes, and Eun-sang can be that annoying damsel-in-distress who can't make up her mind and fight for herself most of the time. They portrayed 18-year-olds from opposite backgrounds whose entwined environments prevent them from enjoying young love, so what do you expect? But when they're being cute, they are so naturally adorable together, they just make you smile whatever your circumstance. Tan is so funny and adorable when asserting his feelings and trying to win Eun-sang's affection, and being hilariously possessive when he tries to be protective of her. Lee Min-ho became Kim Tan, truly 😍; and Park Shin-hye quickly became my fave KDrama actress, of course. 👍😊 

The series also starred a host of wonderful actors and actresses who were all great in their roles and whose on-screen chemistry was so spot-on that I felt... they were my second family. 😌😊 I did have a 'love-hate relationship' with Choi Yeong-do (played by Kim Woo-bin), but it's leaning more towards 'love' just because he was usually very funny. 😄 But, yeah, there were so many heartwarming moments, and this scene from Episode 13 was one of my favorites - totally hilarious! The adorable Jo Myung-soo, who was Kim Tan's and Choi Yeong-do's friend and played by Park Hyung-sik, was very funny in the scene pictured above. His chemistry with Kim Tan was at its best in the said scene. It didn't feel like they were acting in a KDrama at all. At this point, it being the 13th episode, it felt like watching your own friends engaged in a banter, and you can't help but be proud of being their friend. 😎😊

When I'm having a tough time, I just rummage through the episodes of this KDrama, especially episodes 2,3, 8, 11, 12, 13, 14, 18 and 19... and it gets me through the tough time with a smile. Just like Eun-sang, Kim Tan has become my, uhm... silver lining. ❤😊

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Saturday, July 11, 2020

QOTD

QOTD #27: Ah... what we preach, and what we do.
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by PAM



"There can be an imperfect happiness (felicitas) attainable in this lifetime, in proportion to the exercise of Reason (contemplation of Truth) and the exercise of virtue."  
  - St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Contra Gentiles (paraphrased)

I've always believed that, if we were motivated by the right outcome in what we do, life is itself 'the pursuit of happiness', or more correctly, the pursuit of perfect happiness. 

In his book Summa Theologiae, I gathered that St.Thomas Aquinas defined 'perfect happiness', or beatitudo, as that mystical vision of God, which can only be possible in the afterlife.  It is in consonance with the belief of St. Augustine who said, "our heart is restless, until it rests in you," in his adoration of God. Unlike St. Augustine, however, St. Thomas Aquinas believed that we can still achieve 'imperfect happiness', or felicitas, in our lifetime.  This can be achieved in contemplation of the truth.  And the happiness we
St. Thomas Aquinas
Source: Encyclopedia Britannica
achieved in the actualization of our natural faculties is "in proportion to the level of truth accessible to Reason".  


Therefore, our own rationalization of our actions, in which we exercise our mental faculty in aligning our actions with the contemplated truth, can help us achieve felicitas. That imperfect happiness that we feel in all that we do can give peace of mind and joy.  This enables us to realize the truth more clearly in our continued contemplation, helping us to see with clarity the higher purpose of the life we live.  The more often we exercise contemplation, the sharper our vision becomes, and we become more receptive, too, to God's revelation of the truth - in answering our prayers.      

This is why, in our workplaces, shared vision is very important.  When everyone understands the leadership's vision, and it is clear to everyone how the actions that our Institution or Organization are pursuing are in harmony with the vision through clear rationalization, then it is easy for everyone to happily play his or her role.  Note that playing one's role though involves personal contemplation, and therefore, putting one's mental faculty to use, and acting accordingly.  When one is deprived of actualizing his or her own natural faculties in playing his/her role accordingly, and is forced to merely follow instruction without contemplation, then felicitas cannot be achieved.  I imagine that this is why there are many people who are unhappy in their workplaces, or who become unhappy when new leadership comes to be, and new policies are crafted and implemented without mutual respect and without regard to everyone's natural right to actualize natural faculties.  

In view of the above, I imagine, too, how it is impossible to be happy in a country ruled by a dictator, especially if that country knows what democracy is and has thrived in democratic environment before where actualization of natural faculties is supported, and in fact, encouraged.         

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Thursday, July 2, 2020

Birthday wish...

...in the time of pandemic.
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by PAM


A birthday wish... in hope and faith.
Birthdays are supposed to be happy occasions - a break from one's usual daily grind; a day to make a special wish, and experiencing the fortifying solemnity of faith that that wish shall be granted.  

Birthday can be that 'one fine day' of quiet contemplation and reflection, a soulful thanksgiving, or simply just being lazy and being left alone to enjoy some quality "me time"... with a good book and a good music playing in the background, or a day of leisure writing or re-watching a fave movie or TV mini series, or old music videos... or just being surrounded by good vibes all around.  It can also be a gathering of loved ones, some fun sharing of anecdotes, or sharing some moments of warm togetherness, or an opportunity to laugh loudly and happily, making fun of each other to disguise deep affection, the expression of which on ordinary days can otherwise make everyone feel awkward and uncomfortable, or playing fun games with the aim of just being foolish and crazy-happy... with good home-cooked food passed around to keep feeding that appetite that grows with the feeling of happiness and satisfaction.  Or, it can be a combination of both... a day of remembrance that, in all that we do, we take a step closer to the fulfillment of our fate - God's plan, and a step closer to finally seeing His face... a moment of pure love when there is nothing else to feel but joy.

With the "new normal" in this world that was taken over by COVID-19, I found that birthdays are still happy occasions, in a more laid-back way.  There is that simple joy while being physically remote than usual from most of the celebrator's usual crowd. Strangely enough, it wasn't all that bad, especially when we allow ourselves to be treated
My simple birthday plate this year. The simplicity
does not diminish how special the day is.
by life with that most precious gift of time.  Time for contemplation and reflection... time for devotion, time for God... time with God. 


This year, I get to spend my birthday 'quietly'. I made time for myself... I insisted to make time for myself. I refuse to remain a slave of one's, or a few people's, refusal to see why God might be allowing this hideous COVID-19 to take over our lives, which is for us to re-discover the path towards Him... for us to abandon the paths that we invented and built in our foolish belief that we have become so great that we can build a better 'highway' towards a kingdom of the same grandeur as His.  I refuse to be a pawn to one person's obsessive desire to own excellence... by pushing everyone around that person to sprint exhaustively to reach the numbers that, to that person, define excellence.  It is painful to watch that person's fierce push, believing that excellence in time of pandemic can be measured by numbers rather than the real feeling of joy for having collectively accomplished something of impact on people's lives from shared vision. Too bad that we are missing the golden opportunity to re-discover God... and each other; to make a real difference in people's lives so that they, too, can re-discover God.  And, it is sad that that person is taking all the pawns in a direction that spells peril, frustration and disappointment through the emptiness of mere compliance.

Pardon me if that sounded like arrogance and judgment on my part.  I admit that I am not in the position nor do I have the moral ascendancy to make that person see how mistaken that person is.  And yet, that person might be right.  After all, it is possible to be right and foolish at the same time, isn't it?  Ah, but this birthday is not about such foolishness, and I have a few more minutes to continue celebrating it.  Therefore, I leave a mark of this special day here... while I continue rediscovering the path towards my fate, while I pray fervently for strength, wisdom and love in my heart to resist foolishness without having to push back and risk hurting others... and shepherd my own flock to where true happiness can be found.  

I rest my weary heart and troubled mind in God, and I hope that He grants me my wish on this special day. Amen.

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Photo credit:  I own the photos.  The first was taken in my front yard, and the second was taken on my birthday dinner.

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Sunday, March 15, 2020

Not a fan of K-Drama...

...but I am making exceptions.
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by PAM

I've always been clear, and annoyingly so for some probably... and sorry, I'm not sorry: I am not a fan of Korean Drama or Korean Telenovela, or simply "K-Drama".  I know that I probably should.... Uhm, nah, I know there is no 'should', not even when paired with 'probably', and that it is okay that I am not trying to be a fan. I really dislike the "tutti-frutti" appeal, and all things cutesy and dreamy... and heavily made-up faces of men that confuse the eye because they are prettier than their female counterparts that it's not fair, and I cannot stand it. And there's very few girls/women in K-Drama that can match the
Capt. Ri Jeong Hyeok who got me, oh, so hooked!
beauty of their male counterparts, and it's annoying.  I know, I am such a snub, I feel like smacking myself... but, whatever!  I am not a fan. Period.


And then along came Hyun Bin... the 2017 and up version of Hyun Bin, that is.  All of a sudden, K-Drama is happening in my boring and bored... life, or, uhm, non-life. 😯

I first saw him in Crash Landing On You (CLOY) last March as this stoic and man-of-few-words Captain in the North Korean Special Police Force, Capt. Ri Jeong Hyeok. His usually calm aura, easy gentleman stance and expressionless face were the things that got me curious in CLOY, especially because of those to-die-for dimples that lights up his face without even trying. Hoy! 😍😅 He made me pay attention. And, before I knew it, I was actually paying attention... to the story, and the interesting characters in the drama, especially Capt. Ri, needless to say! 🙊😁  And then, I got hooked... and then, I got so, so hooked! 😅😊 And then, I got desperately hooked, whipped... hopeless, helpless... aargh! 😂  And you know what, I did not resist it... I gave in to the pull, and enjoyed, uhm... the heck of it!



*To be continued... hyperventilating, whew!*

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Photo credit:  The photo is not mine, but grabbed in the internet - thanks to the owner.

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Monday, January 13, 2020

Praying...

...for those affected by the Taal volcano eruption. May they stay safe, calm and hopeful for better situation to unfold. We pray for the Philippines. May God bless us all!